Hi I’m Gem
I am a single mummy of six wonderful children, with two children from my first marriage and four from my second.
Yes, you heard that right, married twice, separated twice, divorced once, with my second due soon.
Although my path has been far from easy, it has shaped me into the resilient and capable person I am today.
In both of my relationships, I unknowingly picked the same type of person, seeking something they ultimately couldn’t provide.
I discovered they were both difficult people, weaving webs of lies to maintain control. They manipulated situations, never took responsibility for their actions, and constantly made me doubt myself.
Their words and actions would put me down, using tactics such as gaslighting to undermine my confidence.
False promises and accusations were their weapons of choice, and issues with money only exacerbated the emotional toll.
But I refused to let their negativity define me. Through sheer strength and adaptability, I weathered the storm and emerged stronger than ever.
I have embraced my role as the head of the household, working diligently to provide for my family. While juggling the responsibilities of a full-time job.
I also dedicated myself to creating a brand and business, determined to shape my own destiny.
In addition to my professional pursuits, I embarked on a journey of self-healing and self-care by training as a break-up and divorce coach.
It has been a transformative experience, allowing me to grow personally and discover my true potential. Using my gifts and talents of talking and empathising with people on the same journey.
Now, armed with a wealth of knowledge, tools, strategies, and experience, I can put into practice.
I am passionate about empowering other single mummies to overcome their own challenges and unlock their inner strength.
My primary focus
Creating a loving and nurturing home environment for my children, where they can thrive and develop into confident individuals.
I strive to instill in them the values of resilience, determination, and the belief that they can overcome any obstacle.
In summary, my journey as a single mummy has been marked by hardship, but it has also been a testament to my resilience, capability, strength, and love.
I have learned to adapt to any situation and make the best of it for the sake of my family.
Through hard work, dedication, and a commitment to personal growth, I am determined to create a better future not just for myself, but for my children as well.
If you are on a similar journey but you feel stuck or you are struggling with a mountain of emotions or you just don’t know what or where to start.
Please know that you are not alone and I understand the challenges that you are facing all too well as a single mummy.
I empathize with the rollercoaster of emotions that you will be experiencing from the initial breakup, the journey through separation, divorce, and reinventing yourself along the way.
If you would like to follow the journey of this single mummy life then you can find me on Instagram.
The Twins
